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Friday, August 7, 2009

Enthusiasm Makes The Difference in Every Situation

Without enthusiasm the events in life are dull and dreary, flat and uninteresting. We all have a limitless store of enthusiasm, which we can tap into each and every day.

A thought without emotional energy really has no effect. It is the amount of emotion which you put into anything in life which in actual fact is the fuel which propels it into action. The more fuel with which you stoke your fire, the higher your flames will leap and the further your reach will be.

Enthusiasm is something which we can all access in infinite quantities, simply by choosing to do so. We are not limited as to how enthusiastic we can be; it is purely a matter of one's own mindset, one's own attitude and expectations. There are no limits at all to the levels of enthusiasm which you are capable of. I find this thought really exciting and endlessly enticing. If you were to choose to be ever more enthusiastic about things in your day-to-day life, would this not mean that you would be ever happier in your day-to-day life?

When you listen to people who are speaking about something which they are passionate about, their enthusiasm is transmitted to you and it can be felt in different ways. You can hear the highly charged positive energy in their tonality, you can see it in their body languages; the more attuned can actually feel the impact too as a change in energy frequency. Enthusiasm is contagious. Enthusiasm is fun. I for one would not want to live my life without it.

I absolutely love to be around enthusiastic people. I don't want to be surrounded by dreary, unhappy, unenthusiastic vibes; they would surely dampen my flames and put out my fire. No matter how enthusiastic and happy you are, if you are subjected to negative vibes in sufficient quantity and for a long enough time, they will eventually rub off on you. Those negative vibes act like a bucket of water thrown carelessly and thoughtlessly upon your flames.

Few people intend to do this to you; rather they inadvertently emit the vibes which they are feeling. They do not realize or appreciate that they have a store of limitless enthusiasm at their fingertips. It's as if they have turned a blind eye to their own ability to energize their life with enthusiasm.

For those who know how to be enthusiastic, life is fun; life really is a ball! I love listening to motivational speakers and feeling the vibration of their energy. I remember giving a tape (yes it was a few years ago now!) of Anthony Robins to a friend to listen to and her being absolutely blown away by it. I recall her saying that she was listening to it while driving and only realized later than she had begun to drive significantly faster, as she found her own energy levels responding to his enthusiasm.

Those who work out on a regular basis know the impact of listening to different types of music. Some tracks are conducive to a great workout, while others aren't. We do find our energy levels are automatically affected by the tempo and rhythm. I,as a hypnotherapist, am only too aware of the effect of relaxation music upon your psyche. Think too of the "Mozart effect". The fact that we are moved and changed by not only music but all energy vibes is undeniable.

If you want to be happy, then choose to be enthusiastic. Happiness does not come from the outside world; it comes from how you choose to think, what you choose to think about, and what influences you choose to surround yourself with.

Author: Roseanna Leaton, specialist in hypnosis for change. http://www.RoseannaLeaton.com Article Source: http://www.ArticleBlast.com

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Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Feng Shuing Your Lovelife

Is your lovelife in high spirits? Would you like to make it colorfully better? Every loving couple comes through some low ebb in their lovelife. That’s when "the bedroom" is not the warm and amusing room as it should be. Different reasons may cause this to happen but there are some undemanding things you can do to rally around to make things better.

Your bedroom operates as a magnet both literally and figuratively for your affairs. It is also where you have a lie-down during the night replenishing your energy levels for the challenges of the next day. It is probably where your passionate life is centered - unless you like to try out - maybe you're a maverick who likes to commune with the outdoors. Your bedroom is your heavenly haven and your homes sanctuary.

The design and layout within it plays a substantial role not only on your passion and romance chances but also your health, wealth and other relationships in general. Conscientious vigilance should definitely be paid on this very important room. When you get it right, positive energy (called "chi" by the Chinese and "ki" by the Japenese) will flow easily through your home.

All things in life are connected at the minute quantum level and the following details will help direct you so you and your dealings will thrive:

  • Ensure that your bedroom "feels" welcoming. It must accomplish the role of a safe retreat for you. What goes your bedroom say about you and your personality? Does it say "I'm at home with myself" or is it a big mess and frenzy? Is it just functional - it's purpose is only for resting in your eyes? If so, then it has got to change together with your lovelife.
  • Maintain only those items – furnitures/trinkets/gadgets/equipments/accessories – which have fond/loving/good memories. Are there any old flames "hanging around" - again, chuck them out - you do want to move on to a new relationship - don't you? Items holding bad memories also hold residual energy that remind your non-conscious mind.
  • Keep your bed as the focal point of the room - where both "action" and "inaction" takes place, where you are both animated and renewed. Does your bedroom have a "personality problem"? Is it in effect multitasking? Do you have a home office or perhaps a treadmill beside you? Again, these items should not be here. You want to focus on your relationships rather than your body or mind in this room - move them out. If this is not possible due to space constraints, you will need to use a screen to keep them "at bay".
  • That ubiquitous TV set. Yes it can be cozy to curl up in bed and watch a great movie but a TV sends out a stream of positive ions (rather than positive chi) - this device is "yang" in nature and will ensure your body does not get the rest it requires. It also represents a 3rd party in the room - not particularly conducive to a stable and healthy monogomous relationship... Once again - the TV has got to go.
  • Make sure your bed is as far away from the door. If you cannot see the door, you will feel anxious at a subconscious level - this is because you can’t figure out any intruder (heaven forbids!). This uneasiness will affect how you rest at night.
  • Select a bed which has a solid and sturdy headboard. In Form School Feng Shui, the headboard represents a supportive mountain to your back.
  • Your bed cleaves to some residual energy from those who have come and gone before. Ideally, if you have had a partner and wish to attract a new one, you should buy a new bed. This offers you and your new relationship an best possible chance to grow. In any case, you should invest in the finest bed you can as if you sleep 8 hours per day, this means you will spend 1/3 of your entire life in it!
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